Henry "Hank" Koetje

Saturday, September 29th, 1923 - Sunday, April 14th, 2019
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Henry “Hank” Koetje, age 95, lifelong Oak Harbor resident, World War II combat survivor and businessman, passed away on Sunday, April 14, 2019 at Summer Hill Assisted Living, surrounded by his family.
Mr. Koetje was born in Oak Harbor on September 29, 1923, to Ben and Hattie (Meeter) Koetje. He attended Oak Harbor schools, graduating from Oak Harbor High School in 1941. Hank attended the University of Wyoming and the University of Washington. Hank was drafted into the US Army and served during World War II. On Christmas Eve 1944 Hank was on the troop ship SS Leopoldville. They were crossing the English Channel en route to Cherbourg, France, when the ship was struck by a German torpedo. Over 800 perished in the disaster. Hank, one of the survivors, became a recipient of the Bronze Star Medallion.
When he returned from the war, Hank founded the Koetje Real Estate and Insurance Agency. In 1957 he and his partners started Island Savings and Loan, which later became Interwest Savings Bank. He was also instrumental in the founding of Island Title.
He was a member of the Whidbey Presbyterian Church, where he sang in the choir and held the office of an elder. Hank was a great sports fan. His favorite sport to play was tennis. He thoroughly enjoyed watching the Mariners, his beloved Huskies, and the Seahawks. He was a member of the American Legion, Navy League, VFW and Rotary. Hank was an accomplished world traveler.
Hank was married to Evelyn Dykstra, and the couple had three children: Gary (who passed away at the age of ten from leukemia), Gail and Mike. He later married Marilyn (Korthuis) Kincaid in 1987 .
Hank is survived by his wife Marilyn of Oak Harbor; his daughter Gail Neil (Bruce) of Seattle; son Mike Koetje (Mary) of Snohomish; step-daughter Debra Friedly (Howard) of Olympia,; two step-sons, Douglas Smith (Robin) of Lynden and Dwayne Korthuis-Smith (Wendy) of Mercer Island; his grandchildren, Chad Neil, Shaura Larson, Josh, Derek and Nicole Koetje, Adam Smith, Katie Tadema, Courtney Smith, Lauren Spicer, Grace and Claire Korthuis-Smith and numerous great-grandchildren; his brother Al Koetje (Sherita) of Oak Harbor; his sister Burleigh Smith (Garry) of Marrowstone Island; his half-brother James Koetje (Balisa) of Mount Vernon; his half-sister Kathy Bos (Stan) of Sunnyside; also, numerous nieces, nephews and other relatives. He was preceded in death by his son Gary, by his sister Louise Jensen and by his brother Les Koetje.
A Memorial Service will be held on Sunday, April 28, 2019, 2:00 PM at Whidbey Presbyterian Church, Pastor Jon Draskovich officiating. Military Honors will be presented by the US Army Honor Guard, Fort Lewis. Private interment will take place at Maple Leaf Cemetery. Memorials can be made to Whidbey Presbyterian Church. Arrangements have been made with the assistance of Whidbey Memorial Funeral and Cremation Service.
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  • Service

    Sunday, April 28th, 2019 | 2:00pm
    Sunday, April 28th, 2019 2:00pm
    Whidbey Presbyterian Church
    1148 SE 8th St.
    OAK HARBOR, WA 98277
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    Military Honors will be presented by the US Army Honor Guard, Fort Lewis
    Pastor Jon Draskovic
  • Interment

    Maple Leaf Cemetery
    Private interment will take place at Maple Leaf Cemetery


Donations are being accepted for: Whidbey Presbyterian Church Memorial Fund.


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Sharon E. Whalen

Posted at 09:08pm
My brother-in-law Hank Koetje was kind and generous. I have wonderful memories of the times spent in the Pacific Northwest with this very fine man with a gracious smile! Hank's daughter Gail Koetje Neil is a lovely person with a beautiful singing voice. Many people, including me, with miss Hank Koetje.
Sharon Dykstra Whalen

Burleigh Smith

Posted at 05:10pm
Late Christmas Eve 1944 a Florist in Mt Vernon came to our door and delivered a dozen red roses to our Mom and a dozen Pink carnations to me from Hank. Was a big deal for an 8 year old and have never forgot. It was the night Hank's ship went down in the English Chanel.I

Nice for me to grow up with two older brothers and sister. They always made me feel loved and there for me. Spent many special times with you through the years Hank. Love You and will miss you.

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